• Recognize that gender violence is a men's issue that affects women whom you care about.
• Confront the abusive behavior of other males by not remaining silent.
• Understand how your own attitudes and actions my perpetuate sexism and violence and work toward changing them.
• Gently offer your support if you suspect that a woman close to you is being abused or has been sexually assaulted or stalked.
• Be an ally to women who are working to end all forms of gender violence.
• Speak out against homophobia and gay-bashing.
• Mentor and teach young boys about how to be men without degrading or abusing girls and women.
• Refuse to purchase any magazines, videos or music that portray women in a degrading manner or include violence against women.

Adapted from "Campus Violence Prevention Resource Guide" produced by the California Coalition Against Sexual Assault.